Jennifer, Betty’s daughter, called me on Monday in the mid-afternoon. I didn’t get to the phone until it was about to go to voice mail. I didn’t recognize the number, and, I suppose, the steady stream of spam calls – and also my general dislike of talking on the phone – have trained me to … Continue reading Pastor Note #122: Pastoring in the Face of Death
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Pastor Note #69: Death and the Victory of Christ
DEATH AND THE VICTORY OF CHRIST: Living and Dying Well You are going to die. So am I. This is a fundamental and unavoidable truth for all human beings, and how we deal with that great truth can have a profound impact on how well we live and on how well we die. Sadly, many … Continue reading Pastor Note #69: Death and the Victory of Christ
Pastor Note #30 — Death and the Embodiment of Love
Yesterday, I was looking over the annual report for my congregation for 2011. I was surprised to see that only five of our members died during the year. It was surprise to me, because I had done more than twice that many funeral in 2011. Now that I've been here in the community for nine … Continue reading Pastor Note #30 — Death and the Embodiment of Love
Pastor Notes #19
{A note sent to a family whose dog had just been euthanized because of cancer.} Dear Ts, What pain love can bring into our lives! Whenever we give our hearts in love, we make ourselves vulnerable to sorrow. Yet in spite of any sorrow that comes into our lives by way of love, the richness … Continue reading Pastor Notes #19
Pastor Notes #9
[The following is a letter I wrote to a forty-something parishioner who had been raised in a nominal Roman Catholic home and had given her life to Christ while she was in college. This letter was written on the occasion of her nominally Catholic mother's death. As you will also see, the circumstances of my … Continue reading Pastor Notes #9
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